Robyn Levin,
Personal Stylist & Shopper

Style therapy was the key to valuing myself more

How to reinvent yourself using style

Fresh out of the relationship, my heart was still tender. I was finally free to focus on my own dreams, no longer responsible for fixing someone else’s problems. But despite this freedom, I still loved and missed him. I questioned whether I would ever find true love again, while simultaneously blaming myself for not recognizing the toxic patterns sooner.

Desperate to regain my independence, I accepted a fashion assistant designer job that seemed promising on paper but left me feeling unfulfilled. I poured everything into proving my worth—taking on tasks outside my role, overextending myself, and constantly seeking validation from my boss. But no matter how hard I worked, I felt replaceable. The lack of boundaries I had in my relationship had followed me into my career.

Then, my hair started falling out.

Give yourself permission to put your own needs first.

That was my breaking point. I had spent so much time taking care of others and proving my worth that I had completely neglected myself. I had been working with a life coach on setting better boundaries, but at that moment, I knew I had to start living the changes.

I quit the job that was draining me and chose one that gave me the space to prioritize my well-being. I immersed myself in the things that nurtured me—yoga, public speaking, and starting my own business.

Style played a crucial role in my healing journey. As I redefined my personal style, I intentionally curated outfits that aligned with the woman I was becoming—turning the act of getting dressed into a form of self-care. It became a way to honour my soft-hearted, sensitive nature instead of seeing it as a weakness. My take on power dressing was different; it wasn’t about structured suits or rigid definitions of success. Instead, it was about self-expression—embracing my natural curls, feeling free to go makeup-free when I wanted, and choosing romantic-inspired outfits and accessories that made me feel beautiful, feminine, and most importantly, like myself.

As I embraced my individuality, everything else started falling into place. I didn’t have to chase love or a fulfilling career—both naturally aligned when I stepped into my confidence. Not long after, I met my future husband, and six years later, we’re still together.

Now, I help women overcoming the pain of letting go of a struggling partner in order to reclaim their confidence and self-worth through personal style so they can feel worthy of the healthy love and meaningful career they deserve.

Are you ready to prioritize yourself and rediscover your power through style?

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